Pro-life, but allow in cases of rape, incest, or danger to the mother or child

That is essentially halfway there to being pro-choice. The other half of the conversation is that women as individuals know their circumstances better than anyone: social, medical, financial, and cultural consequences may come from bringing a child to term that could be injurious to the mother and potential child, and if one cares about making these exceptions already, it is not beneath you to consider other complications that make abortion make sense, and where at the end of the day, taking all these ideas of exceptions to abortion all come back to the woman realising that there is an issue with bringing a child to term that wouldn’t be advantageous or feasible to woman and potential child, and she is making the adult decision to terminate the pregnancy.